Sexuality and

Becky Patton is a gifted, sought-after teacher, speaker, pastor and radio contributor. She is also co-host on the podcast Fun Parts. 

She is known for her unique ability to integrate spiritual truth with cutting-edge research and real-life experience.

Becky speaks first-hand of finding powerful, practical, personal hope in seemingly hopeless circumstances, including the debilitating pain of sexual abuse and the hollow ache of low points in marriage.

A wife of 40+ years and mother of two grown daughters, Becky has spent many years ministering to and mentoring men and women, whether as pastor, speaker, or personal encourager.

Holy Sexuality

What in the world does sexuality have to do with spirituality? Now that’s a good question. Becky addresses that and so much more in her book.

You’ll discover fresh truth from the scriptures and amazing new revelations in brain science and biology that are converging to provide a wealth of insight as well as a holy invitation: Can we recognize our sexuality as good by God’s design? And can we embrace real-life questions as sacred invitations to learn more about God and His amazing love for us?

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Pastoral Counseling

Becky offers a variety of pastoral counseling helping people explore often unspoken questions directly related to their sexuality.  If this is something you’re interested in, please send an email to beckypatton@me.com. We’ll be in touch with you shortly.


Using the Enneagram and How We Love, couples receive practical tools for growing stronger communication patterns and skills while addressing  real-life marital issues. 


Many desire a greater understanding of how sexuality and spirituality are intertwined. During individual pastoral counseling, each person will have the chance to address past relationship wounds, receive tools to begin healing where it’s needed and desired, be equipped for areas of growth as well as recognize and live out of one’s strengths.

Couples | Sexual coaching

Couples can often feel stuck in their sex life. By inviting couples to see sex as an act that engages each person’s entire self: spirit, mind, and body – couples are given the chance to establish better sexual communication that in turn can positively affect many other areas of their relationship.

Sexual crisis situations

Becky offers confidential pastoral counseling during crisis situations for individuals, clergy or church boards. To inquiry in a crisis situation, please call 612.388.7379. Leave a message with your information and you will be contacted directly.